icq awaymessages...

gimme a hack so that i can change my n/a and away before going into that satus...

atm it's working like this:
i'm online > clicking the statussymbol > my old message is set > texting the new one > changing into new one

but all the onees who are chatting with me in that moment see my old awaymessage >_<

help me :o or is it just my fucking old pc who is fucking me up every time i change my fucking satus in my fucking icq messenger?