Life advice guys

by Jayy • 3 Dec 2010, 16:33 • Journals
well my current girlfriend ( my profile picture ) we just got together and her brother hates me cos uhm.. i said some bad shit to him cos he kissed my ex GF xD but yeh he told his parents i do drugs and im a bad man :'( she convinced her parents i dont but he might get his dad too stop me seeing her, ok to he point.. do i just leave it and not say anything to him, or do i fight him, fighting him might make things worse but atleast he will stop talking shit? ps.. i smoke weed but lets be honest, its not a drug ;D


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Complex 3 Dec 2010, 16:35
yes, come to crossfire
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:36
well i'm hardly gonna go to some fucking emo website where everybody is like ohhhh don't use violence just sit in a corner and cut yourself your life is worthless. atleast people will tell me that i have cancer or something that makes me laugh :')
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Complex 3 Dec 2010, 16:38
you have cancer!

medicinal marihuaina = can't be mad at you for doing drugs
beat up brother -> blame the medicinal marihuana, they understand
profit
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fumble 3 Dec 2010, 16:36
sit down...take a breathe and smoke some weed.
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steeler 3 Dec 2010, 16:36
fuck him up
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pupupup 3 Dec 2010, 16:36
Kill her family


With a knife
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:37
i like your approach.. thanks <3
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HardyRah 3 Dec 2010, 16:37
haha =D nice
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PHOTO 3 Dec 2010, 16:37
shut the fuck up. asking for relationship advice on a gaming forum, seriously kill yourself
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Jonasty 3 Dec 2010, 16:44
ik wou dat ook aan jou eens vragen, maar jij was er niet voor me ;(
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PHOTO 3 Dec 2010, 16:45
dutch language, reported.
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Levin 3 Dec 2010, 17:03
double reported
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Quiki 3 Dec 2010, 20:53
Yea. Rather ask this stuff on demi.fi or some other webpage xD ahahha pzlplsa<fkldgnnFasdladkUsdadCadsadaKasdada ssdadYadskadksOasdadU
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garin 3 Dec 2010, 16:37
Stay with your girlfriend, why would u want to lose her?
Don't say/do anything = He has nothing on u

sometimes letting things pass by is the best option

p.s. i'd give her one ;)
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Complex 3 Dec 2010, 16:39
dr. garin
letting weed pass by is not the best option tho!
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garin 3 Dec 2010, 16:39
Did I not mention to smoke weed? .. my bad :D
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infect 3 Dec 2010, 16:39
weed is a drug. Like really. The brother is correct no matter what
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Nub 3 Dec 2010, 16:39
make her pregnant and dump her
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kreatiir 3 Dec 2010, 16:48
fucking awesome
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garin 3 Dec 2010, 16:51
lolcat + lolfat ":D"
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dualinity 3 Dec 2010, 16:39
get in, get out.

problem?
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an1mal 3 Dec 2010, 16:40
be the mature guy and let it go..
my experience tells me it's the best to not try and prove you right, just stick to your opinion but don't try overdefend it.

The girl will only want to see you more if her dad tells her not too so better for you anyway.

either that or stop smoking weed :P
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perforator 3 Dec 2010, 16:40
So you're on bad terms with her brother, he makes her parents believe you do drugs (which, in fact, you do), you tell her lies saying you don't making her lie to her parents, and want to beat her brother up for telling the truth.

Wow.
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Complex 3 Dec 2010, 16:41
imagine the rage if she finds out he lied and does do drugs!
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:42
i smoked weed i aint smoked it for a few months but i told him i stopped last year :/
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unblind 3 Dec 2010, 16:45
they just got together though
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:48
no he thinks im doing heroin or something xDDDDDDDDDDD
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dualinity 3 Dec 2010, 16:50
yes, that is indeed quite common amongst 17 year olds
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infect 3 Dec 2010, 17:08
amphetamine and heroin is quite popular amongst 17 year olds. you should go out more :D
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kaze 3 Dec 2010, 19:10
yes it is
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koosa 3 Dec 2010, 16:40
QuoteLooking for advice on CF


[img|left]http://www.imgjoe.com/x/12856231iki.gif[/img]
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nicon 3 Dec 2010, 19:26
SITUATION!
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Saevio 3 Dec 2010, 16:42
Are you ETc|Jay from Splatterladder?

If so, you should just get a better protection from him!


If not, talk to her parents, not her brother. Convince your parents by saying the exact same thing that you just said to us. They're human after all.
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:43
no i dont play for rate, my aka is Mustang i played for Inferno Gaming.
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Saevio 3 Dec 2010, 16:45
Nah the upper part was just about a little inside joke with Splatterladder who told us to "Get a better DDoS protection instead of asking them to not reveal our match IPs" :)

You really shouldn't go into a conflict with your brother as that will be seen by her parents as you being as agressive as he tells them you are. Instead search the conversation with her parents directly, that's the only thing I can see that might help you.
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syriusz 3 Dec 2010, 16:42
beat the brother in front of his father
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cRackeR 3 Dec 2010, 18:41
thats what all polaks do, and if they drink some wisky with it they'll murder her family aswell
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syriusz 3 Dec 2010, 19:16
ye man we are no pussies, deal with it
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:46
So just leave it? :/
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exceed 3 Dec 2010, 16:49
image: condoom_jurk

Wear this.

it's a dress full of condoms nerd
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dualinity 3 Dec 2010, 16:50
you always give the best advice friend :)
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Levin 3 Dec 2010, 16:52
so when this happens to you just gonna wear a costume made out of condoms

smart man wery
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exceed 3 Dec 2010, 16:55
Well, I didn't read this shit. Just read Life Advice and posted the pic :)
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Levin 3 Dec 2010, 16:56
That some timesaving technique
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zaNc 3 Dec 2010, 16:49
wait till ur gf is 18 (unless she is already), and then walk to her dad and yell: OOOOOOOOOOOO CANT DO ANYTHING SHES 18 OOOOOOOOOOOOO, he'll prolly start doing some FFFUUUs or forever alones that he'll post here?
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h1tmAn 3 Dec 2010, 16:50
punch the bother in the balls at dinner. ka-pow!
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Levin 3 Dec 2010, 16:51
->4chan
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RazZaH 3 Dec 2010, 16:55
Try to talk with her brother to make things clear. It is never useful to talk about such things behind someones back. Ignoring is even worse ! Try to convince him, that his sister is happy with you and that he shall not destroy your relationship (unless he hates his sister). If this doesnt work, then try talking to her parents. Try to act very nice and adult. Dont wear your Basecap and Hiphop-clothes. This seems to be much more mature and they will either kick your ass or accept you. You cant just turn your back to this situation. You HAVE TO take one of this ways, else you will fail 100%.
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Complex 3 Dec 2010, 16:57
but then again, wouldnt we love to see that happen?
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Jayy 3 Dec 2010, 16:57
Yeah i agree but the only reason he dont want me being with her is cos i had a go at him when he kissed my EX gf.. she was the one who told him i do drugs even tho she knew i stopped she's a jealous bitch, i never talk to her brother and i've never met her family, her mother beleves i dont do drugs its just her brother might convince her father
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Suyodhana 3 Dec 2010, 17:03
Sup jay, I saw you in your last match, is sqzz really that good of a strafer as people say?
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RazZaH 3 Dec 2010, 17:08
Are you a kid or at least some kind of an adult ? You cant always look away. If you dont want things to happen (correct english? lol), then you should clear them up. Tell your girlfriend the whole situation. Tell her that you dont want that things like this reach her father. Show her that its important for you that her parents have a good opinion of you. This will make your relationshop even stronger and her parents + brother will also be fine with you.

Look...if you always run away from your problems then you will never success. When i had a girlfriend, then i did always everything for her... Just imagine she breaks up with you because of this shit.What will you do then ? Ask yourself why you are such an afraid prick, who didnt want to talk 10 minutes with someone ? Then again you find youself back in the rude singleworld...

It doesnt matter if you take drugs or not. It doesnt matter if he fucked your Ex or if you ve beaten him up. Fact is that something is happening which isnt right in your eyes and you should fucking do something.
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Anima 3 Dec 2010, 18:02
you should be dr phil nr2 goddamnit!
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Cstm 3 Dec 2010, 16:58
fight her dad
because THE CONSEQUENCES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!!!!111!!!
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m1ke 3 Dec 2010, 17:02
if shes worth it fight for it or else smoke some and chillax
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envyy 3 Dec 2010, 17:08
=D talk some real deep shit talk with the parents or something remember to be complete honest about everything (except u smoke weed sometimes), nvm the brother if your not a complete fuck up he will accept u after time.. nvm how i wrote it. im serious about it
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jnz 3 Dec 2010, 17:12
stab him
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Mott4 3 Dec 2010, 17:22
kill him with fire
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Burneddi 3 Dec 2010, 17:31
Be a man and dump that bitch. Then you're free to smoke all the pot and drink all the beer you want to.
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jackie^ 3 Dec 2010, 17:35
ps.. i smoke weed but lets be honest, its not a drug ;D

i like your style.

ps. keep fucking and trucking
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INSTi 3 Dec 2010, 18:50
if you have a dick that fills her up nicly you have nothing to worry about
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kaze 3 Dec 2010, 19:12
yup ask here on crossfire.
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mAhla 3 Dec 2010, 19:19
just look for another chick ,she aint that hot.
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nicon 3 Dec 2010, 19:28
drink beer and smoke pot with the dad
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ub1quitous 3 Dec 2010, 19:49
play poker
free 50$ to start with
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Nub 3 Dec 2010, 19:51
nice referal link

http://bit.ly/ajHAw0

direct link :)
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ub1quitous 3 Dec 2010, 19:52
lol nicely referrlinked yourself lololol :d
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Mztik 3 Dec 2010, 20:40
Ignore her brother. If she fucks off, who cares. Don't chase --> replace.
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Evilynn 3 Dec 2010, 20:44
oO interesting view.
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Shuki 3 Dec 2010, 23:23
What a Zen attitude. Had no idea you were such a player :D
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Mztik 4 Dec 2010, 13:37
I'm just a clued up mofo, not a player.
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Mayni 4 Dec 2010, 19:32
Looks like 'IRL COOLMASTER' title needs to be passed on from Perfo.
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Mztik 5 Dec 2010, 18:06
I can't compare to a rock star!
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schNee 3 Dec 2010, 20:42
ccare about the others around u imo. its ur life. if she cant accept or w/e look outside enough other girls
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plekter 3 Dec 2010, 21:40
girls?
i have heard of these mythical creatures..
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schNee 3 Dec 2010, 21:42
didnt met them in rl??!
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plekter 3 Dec 2010, 21:44
people keep saying they exist, but i'm still not quite convinced
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schNee 3 Dec 2010, 21:47
u sir tatatatam just replied to a girl! a fantastic tvbh^^
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plekter 4 Dec 2010, 01:15
No, seriously, i don't believe this!
I'm afraid i'm gonna need proof...

":D"
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schNee 4 Dec 2010, 19:38
pics over inet are no proof :P

^^
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plekter 4 Dec 2010, 21:00
guess we gotta find some other way then... :}
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schNee 4 Dec 2010, 21:01
ventrilo action incoming! should be best proof. :)
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Cardo 4 Dec 2010, 01:11
Listen to Biggie and stand above that bullshit.
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