Flirting

by RazZaH • 21 Aug 2011, 22:47 • Journals

I got a simple (or maybe not) question for you guys and i want to know your opinion.

How do you arouse her interest ?

1). You make (honest) compliments, are writing a lot SMS, be very gentle, friendly, flirt a lot with her etc...

2). At first you are a bit more "offensive" and then you wait for her action. I mean at first you flirt with her and later you wait with your SMS some days, that she gets excited or whatever. " You make her feel that she has to fight for you".. I guess you know what im trying to say here..

3) prolly most guys here on crossfire take this one:
you are all awesome and dont need any tactics to get a girl, since you are the most awesome guys in the world (fins).

:-)

randompic, track whatever is on the way... have to take a look at first :)

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image: ybuyeoft

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dont you think this one is a bit risky ? I mean a lot of good girlfriends told me that many girls really want to get noticed by the boys. They all think that they arnt thaat special and they need the attention of the boys. If someone ignores her, they think very fast that they arnt interested anymore...

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I do it this way to mainly test their personality. I like girls who can take a joke.

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and then they want u even more.

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i ask for her skill and then her xfire

same.

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This

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i think youre looking for another word than 'offensive' no?

think he means rape!

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lold hard

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yes i do :D:D:D

but i didnt want to search 1000 hours ion the dictionairy for the fitting word...so i thought this one is alright :P

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i'd go for 1. has the greatest chance of succeeding imo

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og upi esmy yp nr GTORMF XPMRF

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bitch better stfu
image: ed9f6421fb756fcba4767d742d23072d

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LMFAO

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:DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

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he hit the fat guy in the middle aswell :DD double hit :D

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thats either a sentence from some anime movie or u just randomly stumped into ur keyboard out of rage

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move each letter 1 key to the left and you'll get what i meant to type

i just started typing wrong and continued cause i was lazy

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got azerty, cannot compute

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if you want to be FRIEND ZONED

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lol, hero xD

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lol no

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Been on a relationship for too long, cba to remember what is was like to hit on a girl :D

Sending many sms, trying to see her as much as possible

I go to a bar and say that "Hi, I am Finland

Olbaa." And then we leave to her place.

u lold even harder

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if u would use mystic u wouldnt even have to go to her place.. she would jump on u right on the spot.

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oh yea, and while youre leaving the bar, someone says I'm Robaciek and she just forgets you in that moment... too risky to take olBaa imo

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1 of course.

dont you think its too easy for her then ?

I mean some girls want to "cut the diamond" by herself and dont want a finished diamond :x

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1 was the closest thing I could pick to my uber secret flirting, not that any of it works mind you : ))

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Agree :}

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depends on the girl

What if its your mother?

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easy bash

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For me yeah.

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Flirt :) -> Flirting

depends on what situation

3 all the way

QuoteYou make her feel that she has to fight for you".. I guess you know what im trying to say here..

I think you are trying to say 'play hard to get'.

say offensive things, np

4. Act like you could become a good friend, but not too much. Earn her trust while slighly giving signs that you like her. Meet her more often, and after a while ( maybe soon if you feel really confident), make your move, before you enter the friend zone.

idd, thats just the natural way for people with higher intellect.
the rest is for kiddies,retards and douchebags, and you dont want to be any of them

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Hard to tell when you have entered the friend zone :s

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you know, the friendzone is just a kind word for "i dont really want to have sex with you but you are a cool guy anyway".this kind of "friendzone" exists already since the first time you met, because its basically the sexual attraction, so its not really a window which closes after a while

the real friendzone exists only after several months and years of knowing each other very well, but damn, you'll notice by then

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Well that's exactly the point I'm doubtfull about. If a girl was in love with you and you only find out years after date, you claim there will always be a chance to be more than just friends. I think that ignoring her affection for so long can catapult you straight to the friend zone :P

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alright if we are talking about _years_ you might be right :D

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Biggest load of bullshit i ever read :D sounds like some wannabe jock being a doche

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and what if its the friends with benefits zone?

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hehe^^

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You approve?

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http://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup#p/u/0/_ZlZryEKdXE

once she has my number i wait till she texts me.

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how did you know :( ?

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they'll never do that...its a trap :(

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oh and i thought it was the best idea ever, what a noob

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personally i give them GHB and take them home

:')

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I do this way:
I pretend to be not interested in her at all, just being friendly like "Okay you a coolface but I don't care about you"
works most of the times

I hardly leave my PC, so I don't really know a lot of girls.

3 actually, always end up getting someone i really dont want tho xD

J. Cole said:

QuoteSeems like I always had crushes on chicks I couldn't have
And then I end up fucking with someone I shouldn't have

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yea so the option 3 aint always as cool as it sounds

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hell no

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A bit of a mix tbh (: Never try to hard, you'll make urself look desperate (:

ich komm grad von arenal wieder. also die flirten mit ey hallo ey du da komm scohooon eeeeeeh los mach scho^^ geiles flirten oder du hattes solche die die richtig heissen mit einem ego die dachten nach 10sek haben sie dich :o auch falsch. izi proud of urself and a gentleman :)

oh hoffe es war nice ;P

ja das problem ist meistens, dass man(n) net weiß wo man bei ihr steht. ob es nur freundschaftlich ist oder mehr... jede weitere sms etc könnte falsch interpretiert werden und so :(

was meinste ist das beste anzeichen, dass sie interessiert ist. bzw wie ists bei dir ;P (sry bisschen persönlich)

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sms is nicht live sehen von daher zaehlt nur was ablauft wenn ihr euch seht ;)

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true :P

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Depends on the girl, not you.

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image: 1504799_green_jeans_final_collage

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fuck flirting, straight in there!

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fucking nice clothes. great style!

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;)

www.lookbook.nu

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Too difficult. I don't even bother trying anymore.

well yea sometimes you would think its not worth the hustle...

the day somebody invents a 100% authentic pussy, womens will have some serious problem :D

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I just turn on my irresistibility mode. the rest is history.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UzL5Wzcg_3Y#t=52s

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I play shyboi, always works!

Self-esteem but not arrogant.

Pull out yr cock and start swingin' it.
She'll be all over you

Start making conversation with girl and thats all.
Also u must know the type of the girl.

Don't forget the 15mins rule which I changed to 30min rule :)

i gotta admit, all of you nerds are really dedicated.. even tho 80% of you will never get some!

anyway, respect for the optimism!

and what makes you so special?

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Just fill your wallet with loads of paper.

you should ask the girls here about what they think and not the guys who will give us just some fake random lame womanizer story

Actually , one time my friends & me tried something out: the "gay" friend.
They kept callin' me gay & stuff (but in a funny way so they know it's a joke) and you keep denieing it as well. After 5' you give up or so... They trust you cause you're the "gay" and then keep on chatting with her obviously stating you're not etc.

Was the best one night stand I ever had

did you get fish on your bot?

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and even more than fish

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nigga u a retard

Well, tbh no one of your 3 points.

IMHO
#1 is the best way to be refused(or better, be' HER friend lol)
#2 not needed to' be' aggressive or 'Offensive' with her...
#3 LoL

As mAus said, depends of her (what kind of personality she have) situation (if u already know her,if u know here from less time...and overall WHERE you are)

Anyway i don't do nothing that i don't feel to do... I mean, just try only with a girl that you REALLY like..

Oh and train to observe ;)

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