Getting a girlfriend

SO i need some advice from anyone who is in highschool or older. I would consider myself a very shy person. I am not a "cool" person and i am not a complete nerd. Kind a ur basic average white kid. I have always had a hard time getting the courage talking to girls who i tend to like. Right now i am a junior in high school and have never had a girlfriend. I feel left out because so many kids have girlfriends. I dont know if i "should" get a girlfriend or if it doesnt matter that much. I kinda like this girl in one of my classes but i dont know how to really talk to her. Does anyone have any advice for me?
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msn?
mobile phone texting?
just.. talk to her?
ASK PERFO DATING SERVICE!

fucking hell mate i'd sponsor
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this is so retarted talking with girls on msn / mobile...i feel like a complete nerd when doing such
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why is it so retarded? :D
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find out her interests and do talk to her <_<
getting a girlfriend trough the intenetz is very popular nowadays.. and don't act cool or stuff, just be who you are.. there are plenty of girls waiting for you.
correction : act cool n stuff
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invite her to drink a coffee and listen to her when she speaks :)
hes 14yo, drinking a coffee with the girl you want to have fun with tonight is not rly the way he should go trough :)
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Oh er don't talk to her, I heard of one boy who got a girl pregnant when he spoke to herl
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No, but have the same problem, only @ me is one more little thing, I actually am an ugly nerd 8D
made me lol so hard:DDDD
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just use gamehack, works in like any situation
That bunny got swiped! Made me loll hard :P
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ask if she plays et and say u make 3hs

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MSN, get her number off there, arange to meet with your friends and hers. Take it slow, when I first like this girl who went to my school, I had no courage or confidence at all, but I asked her on MSN if she was wanting to come out on friday, she said sure :D and I aranged with other friends, we had a big get together, about 1 months later i am going out with her, lost my virginity to her :p, she lost hers to me, and im still with her :).

I know its hard to try and talk but, just MSN cuz if u have the confidence to say u have never had a gf on teh internet, your super m8 ;)
agree MSN - n1 to talk to girls on.
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Yep, it builds up your confidence loads, since it get's you to know them in a personal way but in an informative manner.

Try MSN :p :), PLUS IM SURE IF YOU SAY YOU HAVE SPOKE TO IDAN, SHE WILL BE CRAWLING!!!
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omg I have tears in my eyes
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YOU TOO?! NICE

btw your the next loekino?
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you want to insult me? how do you come to such a bs statement
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Sorry to say this but your tip is about as useful as your aiming guide xD (meaning it should work) :D
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that @ me??? and lol @ aiming guide? where you get that from lol??
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wasn't it you with all the aiming tips videos on youtube
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Cant remember lol, give me a link :P, I did write an aiming guide awhile ago, can't remember about videos, also a big .ZIP pack full of stuff lol. Anyone got it?
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dunno if it was you then, i might be mistaken xD
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Talk to them - you have nothing to lose mate. Just remember it, no point in hiding it.

also - don't really know you but going out a HELL of a lot is awesome. (life i know CF - strange eh?)

If you like a girl - talk to her. that way she'll know :)

i wouldn't say getting a girlfriend mattered - if you don't feel like one then don't care.


You shouldn't feel left out - remember what your "legal" ages and what the average sex age is. (in england its 17)

Don't really know what else to say..
It's 16, scarzy. :p
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xDDD, dont be shy and talk to her like a real playah!
it's called the malczik style
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malczik has 3 different girlfriends atm tbh
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QuoteDoes anyone have any advice for me?


Yes, dont ask these kind of questions on crossfire.
agree.. he'll find out the hard way.
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i can't fucking agree more than this :DDD

..you can find out love forums or whatever else.. but not xfire please :DDDDDD
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but Mr Dj.

if you ever get lonely. Scarzys always here for you.. baby
one day if i turned up naked @ your door - i wonder what you'll do..
he ll sing u the mr. proper song
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just talk to her about anything that comes in your mind, get to know her better etc.

but surely u aren't in any hurry when it comes to girls
Stick it in her ass. If she doesn't clench so hard she crimps your todger off she's a keeper.
seriously what the fuck?
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What? Need me to draw you a diagram?
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yes please
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k. I has mspaint skillz.

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Used Software: Adobe Photoshop CS Windows

liar
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Busted. Had to resize in PS :<
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no tr00 mspaint skills, you failed in that, but nice pic anyway
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best xfire journal 2008
there is this thingy what i wanted to tell you ...

.. erhm ..
MSN ONLINE MESSAGING.

Then send her some smiley faces, bitches love smiley faces.

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Failing that: in her pooper, that's where you need to stick it.
Sol made me laugh?
what is wrong with the world?!
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that's sad somehow.. but anyways ..

Just go talk to her ;>
CANT U MAKE IT EAZYER FOR ME AND JUST ASK ME THE GODDAMN QUESTION? UUUHHH IM SO HORNY
You don't really need a girlfriend, maybe. Maybe just a fuck buddy, maybe!

Just go up and be like "hai i r y0wsn on CF u laik paly paly?" or something =)))
took you long :/ .. but ok <3 :DD

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how was i? *smokes a cigarette*
Get that image of everything about having a girlfriend being perfect out of your head. cus 1 u will feel way too much pressure and 2 it isnt perfect.
as if i heard srph :D

gl anyway , girls > all
Just relax , don't think , hey thats a nice girl , I want her to be my girlfriend!

Just think , hey thats a nice girl , lets talk :)

Really works , you will relax beter because there is less pressure :D

And hey I never said that she will be your girflfriend in the end

Might be , might not be

Dont worry , there are plenty :)
Too bad you can't sticky journals.

Kids writing a journal on the internet wanting advice on how to get a girlfriend... You start out thinking it's a joke but ends up wanting it to be one.
Girls will make ur life an epic failure and thats a fact.

But beside that, u have some pretty good advices in the beginning of this thread. Just dont over do it.
did you get a screencap? 404'd
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find interests you have in common and try to talk to her about them.., e.g. music(e.g. if she attends to a festival, u might like to go..) or some movies u both could watch together..dunno, just find out her interests and you'll see
girls are overrated
I hope not for ze fighter ?! :P
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Daterape.. your only hope
get her msn, talk to her and give her sAs1's msn adress,depending on her looks she either goes for you or sAs.
Dont take advices from him hes all celeb n stuff, if a girl lacks just one tiny thing he will just fuck her off, a girl must be perfect for him to even look at her, but after all, he is THE tekoa, so dont worry if you have a girl not quite as hot as his chicks :LOS
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sAs1 is rapist #1 in iceland,he gets girls ready that arent even ready to begin yet.
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*chat log*

sAs1: What the fuck do you mean ? your 18 and shes 13..thats just sick ..

teKoa: meh..old enough to pee, good enough for me :LOS


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" &#12484; Jeroen says:
"dichter bij de nul,strakker om de lul"
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fake logs,ban.

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&#12484;Robz says (2:54 AM):
btw, that dwarf i fucked
&#12484;Robz says (2:54 AM):
well, she wasnt exactly tall

nice calling young girls dwarfs.

pedo.
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traitor.


*digging up dirt, stay tuned*



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I probably fuck this shit up with her though
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ill just go to iceland and fuck some 13 y/o bitches
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oh shit
&#12484;Robz says:
HAHAHA
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made me laugh :D
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Go for other peoples girlfriends like I do!
EVAN, WHY YOU BEEN A PLAYAH HATER? YOU KNOW THAT I STILL MUST CONFRONT LORD VADER
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like u pay for hax u pay for girls i guess , mister playah
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btw its 10000x easier when u first meet her irl and then start to "chase her" via msn or whatever :D
Comes from mr. "there's nothing erotic about a womans vagina" :D I wouldn't listen to him, he's 23 and still a virgin!!
that quote is so going on facebook
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make a One Night Stand
Is that you? :p Looks hot!
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best tgeard ever :D so many jokes
tbh there is no instant cure you will just relax and become more confident over time. its the small things that count, so everytime you push past your reservations and fear to do small things like smile, talk, and go out you will get a bit better with girls.

also you are young lol, dont worry bout gf for a while just practice talking to ppl and relaxing
get yourself drunk, makes it easier to make a contact, even you wiont be as impressive as usual, make sure she is drunk too, np
Go to CDC, worked for me.
that was cpc! ..yeh, you lucky bastard :D
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answer@pm!
a nice way to talk with a certain girl is msn/icq (if she use it ofc, but a lot of girls do), i for myself had a lot of success with this way of communication. some days later you got her mobile number.

you can talk about certain things via msn. on a weekend you ask her what party she's going tonight.. all you have to do is grab some friends and go this party too.. there you drink something with her, talk to her etc. when she is going home earlier (or you) you write her a message (random shit like: wuz nice n shit yo, good n8 i have to do some wow-raids now bibAi cuON)

nevertheless, best way to get known with new girls are private parties hosted by friends.
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