Gaim buddy issue

Heey dudes! Ive got a problem i dunno how to rly explain but i hope u Linux guys understand meh ^^


WWell i get this "Buddy synchronisation issue" and like 156 windows with this thing pop ups i close em' all (yes im a hard core frager ^^) then i got like 5 contacts left oO the rest is "offline" but they can still see me online o_O rly weird
And when i went to my buddy i logged in on a real msn prog, i first hade my 161 contacts then 5 secs it went down to 5 again :<

I rly hope you guys can help me!!!