Reverse culture shock(EMOALERT)

Some of you might know what a culture shock is. It's what occurs to a person when living in a different culture over time, when this person realizes that he/she needs to live by and adopt these thoughts and ways of doing things that seemed so strange at the beginning.
A reverse culture shock is just the same, only it occurs when this person is getting used to his home culture once again.

I came back from 6 months in africa in April. That was enough to learn to like many things about the culture there, such as not having to care about time yet still always having plenty of it, people not being direct, people greeting on the street, people everywhere etc etc.

Now coming home it's the exact opposite.

What does this do to a person?
Right now I hate everything and I want more than anything to just don't give a fuck, but that I cannot do. I have to care about all these ridiculus things I at first laughed about people caring about. I have to run around watching the clock. I have to be places I don't want to be, and I have to be there on time. People look away when I meet them on the street.

Fuck.
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sounds interesting, and I'm curious, could you provide some more background for this trip, how and why you ended up in Africa?
I've been attending an exchange school, whos point is, logically, exchange. ~40 norwegian students split up in teams of 2 or 4 and go out to different countries, and people from these countries come to norway and stay there while we're gone.
We have courses together before and after our stay abroad.
In my case I was in Kenya, and supposed to be there the whole time, but due to the troubles I had to run away to Cameroon...
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I remember your journal from a few months ago after that slaughter happened, my ex gf went to Kenya with her school a few years ago she really liked it, few things she noticed tho, the smell, and the begging. They make cool paintings and stuff to I have a few around my house
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njah. That's life. Go kill urself.
yep very good aiming player :D:D:D:
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wb in hell
Gongratulations you have adopted total monkey's behavior while spending time in the known continent of ape-human creatures.

Animal behavior cannot be considered 'culture'
Yeah, people treating each other nicely can't be human..
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I will treat you nicely if you give me money.
Goddamn I love being a part of Western society
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Yes, when you say Africa I think about people treating each other nicely.
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Well, that's the truth. You only see the bad stuff on TV
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join culture clubs and have fun!!1
Same here. Spanish people are happier than hungarians.I wont go back to a depressive country.
hm.. You're hungarian and live in spain?
And YEES, Kenyans/Cameroonians are way happier than Norwegians, that's fo sho :|
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Coloured people are mostly kind and friandly, i really like them. Here in spain they sell clothes/watches etc at the beach, and when they ask you (to buy something) they are always smiling. But I guess its not that good to walk in sand whole day when the sun is shining (30C+).

+a lot of children here because the atmosphere is soo much better here and ppl like each other.

Ye I live here.
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lucky you.. :):)
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I wont tell how I apeared here. But it wasnt a funny story believe me. But as you said "lucky you", you are right!
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You might not tell him, but at least tell me !
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in the states they sell you drugs.
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They are americans dont compare them with spanish and french imigrants. And I really dont like to generalize ethnical groups, I just said my experience.
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you generalized ethnical groups yourself by saying "Coloured people are mostly kind and friandly" Imo black americans are coloured.
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How many black americans do you know?
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uhm zero, but how does that matter?
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Then how come you know that black americans aren't nice?
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I never said they aren't nice. there are bad black people like there are bad white people. However I've been in several U.S. cities, and especially in N.Y. I have seen enough to make my opinion.
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Thank you. Generalization based on such a ridiculus attribute as color is never good in any direction, neither positive nor negative.
It's like saying that a pink phone model X is worse than a blue phone model X, just because a lot of stupid blondes have the pink one.

And I just shot myself in the foot by generalizing blondes.. GG :P
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yeah, but I think the color of your mobile isn't that fundamentally. But basically every racism comes out of that thinking. "that one is better than the other one"

girls would be a whole new subject :D
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Ofc you are right.

If I dont like to drive a car that doesnt matter i still have to sometimes :)
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In Finland they sell us drugs AND rape children
Doesn't minorities JUST FUCKING RULE?
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In Ireland they steal our credit card numbers and commit fraud.
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I didn't even leave Germany and I'm so sick of it that I'll do anything to get away after finishing school.
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mediterranean people > *
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Better than Germans that are afraid to lose their #1 industrial status anyway.
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"and he is finnish" thats more than enough , based on Raikonen
u'll get back normal soon probably
stop cryin bitch, wtf r you talking about culture shock, just fuck that little bitch in the ass thats all bitch wtf is you crying about nigga
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