Social Acceptance and PC Gaming
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25 Nov 2008, 15:52
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Journals
Ok so just a random journal and something to think about, some one please try and answer this one.
A guy invites his mates round for some beers, maybe they also play pro evo on the playstation 3 or whatever. Playing pro evo is considered acceptable in the eyes of society and expected by most women as just something that guys do.
So please now explain to me why people would flame someone who plays ET on his PC, why is it so much more unacceptable to game on the pc than say a playstation?
I just had someone say to me "lol 26 and playing ET" yet the flip side to that is no one has an issue if you play pro evo on your PS3, where there is the difference or is it just that some people are stupid???
A guy invites his mates round for some beers, maybe they also play pro evo on the playstation 3 or whatever. Playing pro evo is considered acceptable in the eyes of society and expected by most women as just something that guys do.
So please now explain to me why people would flame someone who plays ET on his PC, why is it so much more unacceptable to game on the pc than say a playstation?
I just had someone say to me "lol 26 and playing ET" yet the flip side to that is no one has an issue if you play pro evo on your PS3, where there is the difference or is it just that some people are stupid???
but for real.. imo its just that playing on the ps3/wii/xbox360 is what most guys do and also with friends etc.. but when you are playing a game on the comp alone its kinda nurdy, compared to xbox with friends
the real nubs are the ones who buy a console imo, it's far more expensive then a pc =)
and xbox360 is fucking outdated
ow and btw, i can do much more with my pc then gaming only, so yes it's much cheaper
pro evo= football
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If you're sitting on comms with people, some of who are 5-10 years younger than you, from different parts of Europe...all of whom are basically sitting alone in a room, then people just think it's weird.
I disagree with the analogy.
EDIT: typo
well not only because of this factor of course, but I think that it has his part in this misconception of who's the nerd
+ what mama and max said, very true as well
It pains me too though. I know people that'll spend hours playing stupid flash games, but the second you put on anything with some playability (even trackmania rather than a 2D flash car game!) yer called a geek!
while ET.. well.. u sit alone infront of your pc and play alone in the dark :P
or maybe because most ppl play pro evo as a hobby.. while most ppl who play ET/CS do it in a clan .. nerding every night with some unknown ppl to pracc and get better.
its because its football
and football = men
"hey ladies i can make 3 kills with 9 bullets @ET.. wanan drink smth with me?" ... nah this just sounds fucking weird :DD
I normally dont even tell them that i play games active on my pc :P
evo & eVo !! the journal made me crazy !
but i play much PS3 at my mates house and all my friends are (console) gamers too, so its np
I think thats the difference, and perhaps the shear amount of time, and specifically scheduled play if your in a proper
team.
With pro evo i just get shouted at come do a world cup, and we just play whenever. I think if everyone had a good pc and played fps games, then it would be more accepted, but as people said football will be more popular than shooting.
k1pa kicks off the discussion by noting that far more people are exposed to console gaming and, thus, it is seen as the more socially acceptable hobby.
mama, spiroze and Ati all raise the point that the difference is in the style of game - soccer vs shooting. I disagree here, as Halo is seen as a perfectly acceptable party game, at least among my friends.
Max brings up the age difference of players. Generally when you play social PES you'll be playing with your mates of similar ages; playing online FPS games you're playing with people from 15 to 35.
Jerrento mentions media indoctrination and stereotyping which is, undoubtedly, a factor.
Nellie makes the excellent point that console gaming is considerably more inclusive than PC gaming. You can play a console game in the living room with a beer, while chatting to your mates. Your mates can join in too, of course, but even if they don't the whole style is far more open than sitting in the corner with a PC.
Crumbs agrees, and points out that playing online clan games involves interacting (and, frequently, good friendships) with people you can't see and have never met. A large number of people have a lot of trouble comprehending this. The situation here is improving, but not rapidly.
Crumbs also raises, in passing, the thing that I find is the single biggest factor for people calling my gaming geeky. The fact that you have scheduled games. This means you end up blowing off opportunities to go out with friends, which you'd never do as a casual console gamer. This is (justifiably) seen as pretty damn geeky.
Combine all the above factors and you can probably get your answer. I think the situation is slowly improving. I remember when just having a computer and knowing how to use the internet was seen as untolerably geeky. Times change.
Sports games are considered less geek than shooters.
Here you go
Being good at something is geeky, being equally good at something else is cool.
I have two hobbies: playing guitar and computers. The first one is socially accepted. If I play something nice or difficult, people get impressed.
But if I start showing off my programming skills or gaming skills (yes I may suck, but i'm better than Joe D. RandomReallifer), suddenly I'm a geek.
That's life.
I've seen people throw weird faces when I told them I played piano but if someone else said they'd play guitar they'd ask "OOHHH! which songs can you play?" and shit like that. What I'm saying is it's basically the same for instruments. Playing a 'cool' instrument like drums, guitar, bass, and shit like that is kinda cool and all, but if you (for example) play violin as a male you're bound to be called a faggot. Same goes for oboe, flute, piano, organ, etc etc.
Wish I could play more than *I like bread and butter, I like toast and jam, That's what my baby feeds me, I'm her loving man!*
'n the Oboe is the coolest instrument after the sax!
Bit off topic but I think learning an instrument is a better use of your time than et, a few years down the line would you rather be able to play an instrument or be able to put some more et achievements in your crossfire profile?
Though having said that, I still cant bring myself to uninstall and completely stop playing et, its just too much fun! :)
And 2 days ago I was on a classical concert with a student orchestra because i know someone who plays there.
Full of violin-playing chicks!
And chicks or not, classical instruments = win imo.
Well, it's 'accepted', but with current rock/rnb/bullshit-culture in "the world", you're "more accepted" when you play electric guitar then when you play the church organ. At least, that's what I think :D
I have to say though, if I ask a random 17 year old and a random 20 year old I think the 20 year old would be far less hostile towards classical than the random 17 year old. At least personally I see a much broader acceptance and overall better taste of music (imo) in my current age group than i did 3 years ago.
Yeah, same.
I've also noticed a great change in my own personal taste in the past few years. Three years ago I would never have listened to Steely Dan or Miles Davis, but as I become a more literate musician, I find them so much more appealing.
I still haven't been able to get into some of Frank Zappa's stuff yet. A lot of it is just far too crazy.
Makes no sense...
On the point of pc vs console gaming I think the issue is a social one. Do you want to play with rl friends or virtual...Or did the preference come from friends or contacts. I onced asked my class at Uni who played et...no one had heard of it. Asked why 5 of them played ccs, the answer was always "the guys I live with play it"
All my life I heard this "how can u play games like a kid?" alot , and I totally ignore it cuz they dont know.
if there was a way to measure the heartbeats+adrenaline+seratonin (and some other hormones affiliated with happiness and stuff) of a guy who is bungee jumping (cool and accepted), and of a guy who just killed objective carrier 1 meter before the radio (nerd and not accepted)....I'm sure there wouldnt be much of a difference between these two examples...so they dont know what we feel when we are plaiyng vs a equal skilled team..
also kick off owns pes.....by far.
I guess its just whatever your used to and prefer
But the fact that there still young and that there is a serious chance they might still be playing a game when they get older.
I'd never admit to playing WoW in public though >:)
imo, PC Gaming is generally considered nerdy, because PC's are technical as compared to ps3 or xbox, which just requires pushing the power button and chilling :>