do u feel....

by schNee • 7 Dec 2009, 09:27 • Journals
...offended when someone is talking about something..what u maybe sampled or it happened to u?
(e.g. hey some of those girls are fat. would u feel offended, even if u r fat?????????!)

yesterday there was a nice discussion with evelyin (related to http://www.crossfire.nu/?x=journal&mode=item&id=86909)
- too bad someone (I DUNNO) deleted all the replies!

eve would prolly answer with yes if she would be serious.

so tell me your opinion, your acting.

and eve once more it isnt against u but u always react on stuff like this. u like to flame imo thats why u always start defending urself.

greeetz2 goes out to flo <3, michael and my buddies <3 and alexL ofc :)
parzi, noor, wsk, midas, .ee ftw!

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h20xyg3n 7 Dec 2009, 09:29
chubbyfat xD
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ENSJQM 7 Dec 2009, 09:30
sometimes i offended when someone talks about something but if im being sampled its all fine
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swine 7 Dec 2009, 09:31
no greets to me...titz or gtfo
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 09:40
phhh. edit to the edit! done ;)
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Booni 7 Dec 2009, 09:47
No, only people with bad self-esteem would feel offended and that's a fact.
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Rhand 7 Dec 2009, 09:47
german in topic, delete pls.
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 09:54
cmon! i'll treat u bad..... ;)
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Rhand 7 Dec 2009, 10:14
ok, u convinced me ;)
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Thomm 7 Dec 2009, 09:51
Yes, if it was something that isn´t anybodys else business to know or talk about.
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 09:55
i agree!

but what if this persons makes it to everyones business.? its his/her own fault!
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Thomm 7 Dec 2009, 09:59
Well then it is a different thing, but if for example I have talked something with you privatelly and then you go blabber around it = not right.
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pala 7 Dec 2009, 09:57
evelyn is just a whiny lil girl who is a bitch towards anyone who doesn't talk right about her, and she trys so hard to fake that she never gets offended while inside she is so broken
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 09:59
try to see it more general. this journal isnt about evelynn but she gave some good replies so i was thining once more about trating/offending/spam/flame,self-esteem and so on
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sHiZo 7 Dec 2009, 14:30
but still it might be true. :-P
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Rhand 7 Dec 2009, 10:13
I do'nt think she's that "lil"!
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Thunderrr 7 Dec 2009, 11:30
made me smile
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PaRzi 7 Dec 2009, 10:08
If it's just random talk, why should I feel offended!? Imagine you'd be offended by everything someone says just because something like that might have happened to you or you look a certain way or w/e... that must be quite exhausting for you and for your fellow men.

Oh and: Moooorning! :) Im gna get some coffee... om nom nom nom :D
Haj schnee <3 :*
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:23
How can you feel offended by facts?
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:27
do you have access to that pic we made about evilynn. i think now would be an appropriate to drop that shit!
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:28
what pic?
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:31
ooh wait that was tats lol i get them confused. i still need to have a coffee. my sincerer apologies my dear boy
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:37
lol. best pic was qpad-guy's asscrack in front of the window
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:39
that was pretty lol though the ones of reload spraying vomit everywhere were also priceless!
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:41
did we take a pic of that? I didn't
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:44
im sure someone did but there all in my head. he just had that meat feast that someone didn't eat at the Greek, was the mega lols
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swine 7 Dec 2009, 10:46
niggers!
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:59
what you talking about you crazy negro!
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 10:31
im asking the ones who feel offended.... some do!
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:36
you mean the unrealistic ones that know they are fat but also have a low selfesteem so that if anyone ever mentions they are fat they go berzerk about it?
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:37
example please
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 10:37
example pls
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:38
Doesn't need an example. This applies to anyone that feels offended about pics like the one in the journal you mentioned in your post.
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rsp 7 Dec 2009, 10:37
Denial!
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:39
bingo. you win'!
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rsp 7 Dec 2009, 10:42
Thank you so much!

*blush*

Oh my gosh... I didn't expect to recieve this.. I haven't prepared any speech so I'll just send greetings for my mom, sister all other relatives.

Will I have cookies? Even one, please.
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 10:51
nope. no cookies today. sorry!
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zzaps 7 Dec 2009, 10:56
ask religious people..
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Shuki 7 Dec 2009, 13:26
QuoteHow can you feel offended by facts?


Of course you can feel offended by facts, saying such a thing is just idiotic (don't take offence, it's a fact).
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 14:05
Nah, it's idiotic if you get offended by facts. If you are 150kg and you get offended by someone telling you you are fat, then you simply need a reality check.

Sure, there is a difference if someone said "damn, you're an ugly nasty fat fucker". But then the ugly, nast, fucker parts would be offensive.
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Shuki 7 Dec 2009, 19:29
Could it also not be a fact that someone is a "ugly nasty fat fucker"?
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 21:24
Ugly and fat could be physical facts. Nasty might also be a physical fact if he/she doesn't shower much, but fucker is saying something about someone's character instead of their appearance. And without knowing that persons character, the word fucker is simply an insult.

On a sidenote. If someone is fat and get's confronted with it, be it due to someone saying that they are fat or someone posting a pic that makes fun of fat people, then it's usually not that they are offended, but more so embarrassed.
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infect 7 Dec 2009, 14:36
You just said your opinion not facts. There are no facts in your comment
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xeoxis 7 Dec 2009, 13:33
YOU'RE BALD!
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 14:01
true, and I'm not offended.
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:26
being offended by idiots is pointless.
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 10:32
but still some dont get it... .;)
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:32
that's because there idiots and therefore cannot escape the cycle of idiocy
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 10:34
sentence of the day.

u r the winner! make it bold pls so the idiots can read it.. ^^
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 10:35
im to much of an idiot to use markup tags :(
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fabuloz 7 Dec 2009, 14:19
idiots dont know that they are idiots. i prefer the word muggins.
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wsk 7 Dec 2009, 10:27
good morning!

eh, serious topic. Dunno, I think I'd go for "no it doesnt offend me".

The thing is, if u are easily offended by things (I was when I was younger) people might start using it for their advantage and make you mad just for the fun of it.
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PaRzi 7 Dec 2009, 10:31
ur not offended cuz most of the time ure not gettin it anyway :D nihihihihi
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 10:33
:Ddddddddddddddd
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wsk 7 Dec 2009, 10:35
SACREBLEU! pwned :DDDDD
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PaRzi 7 Dec 2009, 10:36
mwahaha.. morning :D
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wsk 7 Dec 2009, 10:37
Mmmmnng (eating chocolate croissant ":D")
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PaRzi 7 Dec 2009, 10:38
GIEF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111
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wsk 7 Dec 2009, 10:40
no can do, ate it all.
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Rhand 7 Dec 2009, 11:59
haha, sacrebleu, can't remember the last time I read/heard that somewhere.
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wsk 7 Dec 2009, 12:13
cpr "introduced" it to our vent, most used term in 2009 :D
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LavOd 7 Dec 2009, 12:02
No lol, I'm perfect!
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 13:11
no doubts :)
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Kevin 7 Dec 2009, 12:04
Probably not ( hi btw ;) )
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 12:08
hey ;) i missed ur bday! gratz ....
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JobCohen 7 Dec 2009, 12:05
Pretty much depends if it's something you're insecure about. Weight/body don't really bother me, I'm skinny and I'm happy with it. I could do something about it but I can't be bothered about it. But I guess if that's something you're insecure about you will feel offended or will try and defend the girls/guys.

If you don't like your nose or are scared of going bald I guess you will feel offended when someone makes fun of a nose/someone being bald.
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nicon 7 Dec 2009, 12:19
dno, im not fat
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 12:21
:)

its not about ur body type. generally feeling offended...
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nicon 7 Dec 2009, 12:27
nah, 70% of my conversations are liek insults only
just gets kinda annoying if so. always says the same
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JobCohen 7 Dec 2009, 12:32
You reply to him but not me?
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 12:41
hhehe i knew u will reply ;)

i agree with ur reply wes :)
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JobCohen 7 Dec 2009, 13:01
There is no fun in agreeing :(
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sHiZo 7 Dec 2009, 14:33
People which always feel offended by random shit talk are either low brained or have poor self-confidence or even both. Who gives a fuck about someone talking bullshit about you when you know that it's bullshit, or from someone you don't even know/like.

It's only hard to get offended by people you like, friends, family etc.
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 15:05
agree with u!
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ecklav 7 Dec 2009, 12:49
The problem is that you are asking this on the internet, (not just crossfire, just internet in general) & the big problem with internet is, that you can become who you want to be. So the people who say they aren't offended by anything other people say.. that's just a lie.

You can always get offended, but you can hide it offcourse. An example, a couple months ago, I knew about a friend who was dating a red haired girl (flame incoming prolly :/) but no one else knew, at one evening, some of my other friends were really laughing about a redhaired girl, I can't imagine somebody could not be offended like that? My friend just acted like he didn't care, he even admitted being in love.

Me myself, I'm not easily offended, since I have extremely high self-confidence. Whetter it is to hide a low self-esteem I leave to the psychologists if I ever have to attend one. (narcistic behaviour) But I also have an extremely high feeling of empathie, what makes it easy for me to understand when someone is offended & also 'feel' with them.

So as a conclusion, it's understandable if someone is offended by anything what people could or can say.


PS: something is wrong with me today, my english-skills feel extremely weird & bad :/
Normally I don't have that problem :D
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AL1 7 Dec 2009, 13:02
The problem is that you are asking this on the internet, (not just crossfire, just internet in general) & the big problem with internet is, that you can become who you want to be. So the people who say they aren't offended by anything other people say.. that's just a lie.

You can always get offended, but you can hide it offcourse. An example, a couple months ago, I knew about a friend who was dating a red haired girl (flame incoming prolly :/) but no one else knew, at one evening, some of my other friends were really laughing about a redhaired girl, I can't imagine somebody could not be offended like that? My friend just acted like he didn't care, he even admitted being in love.

Me myself, I'm not easily offended, since I have extremely high self-confidence. Whetter it is to hide a low self-esteem I leave to the psychologists if I ever have to attend one. (narcistic behaviour) But I also have an extremely high feeling of empathie, what makes it easy for me to understand when someone is offended & also 'feel' with them.

So as a conclusion, it's understandable if someone is offended by anything what people could or can say.
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ecklav 7 Dec 2009, 13:05
OMG those bF guys are really idiots!
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JobCohen 7 Dec 2009, 13:09
Met dat quasi-intelligente geleuter van je roep je het over jezelf af.
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ecklav 7 Dec 2009, 13:13
gohhh kijk is aan, wat een steek, geen come-back mogelijk.
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JobCohen 7 Dec 2009, 13:18
Wat?
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schNee 7 Dec 2009, 13:31
no comeback possible :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
the rest i do not understand ;)
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JobCohen 7 Dec 2009, 13:42
I told him that with his quasi-intelligent bullshit he should be ready for replies like this 8). He replied to me sarcastic, but without making much sense.
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AL1 7 Dec 2009, 17:47
that hurts man =(
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Ronner 7 Dec 2009, 14:08
The fact that they were laughing about your friend dating a girl with red hair says more about them being morons than about your friend being "weird for dating a redhead".
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ecklav 7 Dec 2009, 16:35
I didn't said anything about my friend being weird, but the fact is that sometimes, not even being seriously, jokes about redheads are made, not realising that it could offend someone.
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herbal 7 Dec 2009, 15:53
ye its easy not to get offended especially when your a cheating scummy cunt!
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AL1 7 Dec 2009, 17:50
jada is clean. oops i meant ecklav =$
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mOsq 7 Dec 2009, 13:10
i dont care what people say
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KipzZ 7 Dec 2009, 14:17
i dont really watch what them what do
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sHiZo 7 Dec 2009, 14:33
People which always feel offended by random shit talk are either low brained or have poor self-confidence or even both. Who gives a fuck about someone talking bullshit about you when you know that it's bullshit, or from someone you don't even know/like, or even better: from someone from the internetz.

It's only hard to get offended by people you like, friends, family etc.
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Gifted 7 Dec 2009, 15:07
You should only care about the opinions from people who matter to you.
Not some random lowlife who calls you 'fat' for example.
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sac 7 Dec 2009, 15:21
brb goin to train lul
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plekter 7 Dec 2009, 15:39
Noone has ever hit/attacked whatever it is my self-image is built upon, so I do not know how I will react when that happens...
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Fizmo 7 Dec 2009, 16:45
typical boring women talk that no one cares about zzzzzzzz
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schNee 8 Dec 2009, 09:29
tzzzzzzzzzz it wasnt about women talk :o
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