do u feel....
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7 Dec 2009, 09:27
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...offended when someone is talking about something..what u maybe sampled or it happened to u?
(e.g. hey some of those girls are fat. would u feel offended, even if u r fat?????????!)
yesterday there was a nice discussion with evelyin (related to http://www.crossfire.nu/?x=journal&mode=item&id=86909)
- too bad someone (I DUNNO) deleted all the replies!
eve would prolly answer with yes if she would be serious.
so tell me your opinion, your acting.
and eve once more it isnt against u but u always react on stuff like this. u like to flame imo thats why u always start defending urself.
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e: GRUESSE AN DAS SCHWEIN DA AM WEGESRAND!
(e.g. hey some of those girls are fat. would u feel offended, even if u r fat?????????!)
yesterday there was a nice discussion with evelyin (related to http://www.crossfire.nu/?x=journal&mode=item&id=86909)
- too bad someone (I DUNNO) deleted all the replies!
eve would prolly answer with yes if she would be serious.
so tell me your opinion, your acting.
and eve once more it isnt against u but u always react on stuff like this. u like to flame imo thats why u always start defending urself.
greeetz2 goes out to flo <3, michael and my buddies <3 and alexL ofc :)
parzi, noor, wsk, midas, .ee ftw!
random song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6SJm0XSWKg&NR=1&feature=fvwp
BTW GOOD MORNING!!!!!! :DDDDDDDdd
e: GRUESSE AN DAS SCHWEIN DA AM WEGESRAND!
but what if this persons makes it to everyones business.? its his/her own fault!
Oh and: Moooorning! :) Im gna get some coffee... om nom nom nom :D
Haj schnee <3 :*
*blush*
Oh my gosh... I didn't expect to recieve this.. I haven't prepared any speech so I'll just send greetings for my mom, sister all other relatives.
Will I have cookies? Even one, please.
Of course you can feel offended by facts, saying such a thing is just idiotic (don't take offence, it's a fact).
Sure, there is a difference if someone said "damn, you're an ugly nasty fat fucker". But then the ugly, nast, fucker parts would be offensive.
On a sidenote. If someone is fat and get's confronted with it, be it due to someone saying that they are fat or someone posting a pic that makes fun of fat people, then it's usually not that they are offended, but more so embarrassed.
u r the winner! make it bold pls so the idiots can read it.. ^^
eh, serious topic. Dunno, I think I'd go for "no it doesnt offend me".
The thing is, if u are easily offended by things (I was when I was younger) people might start using it for their advantage and make you mad just for the fun of it.
If you don't like your nose or are scared of going bald I guess you will feel offended when someone makes fun of a nose/someone being bald.
its not about ur body type. generally feeling offended...
just gets kinda annoying if so. always says the same
i agree with ur reply wes :)
It's only hard to get offended by people you like, friends, family etc.
You can always get offended, but you can hide it offcourse. An example, a couple months ago, I knew about a friend who was dating a red haired girl (flame incoming prolly :/) but no one else knew, at one evening, some of my other friends were really laughing about a redhaired girl, I can't imagine somebody could not be offended like that? My friend just acted like he didn't care, he even admitted being in love.
Me myself, I'm not easily offended, since I have extremely high self-confidence. Whetter it is to hide a low self-esteem I leave to the psychologists if I ever have to attend one. (narcistic behaviour) But I also have an extremely high feeling of empathie, what makes it easy for me to understand when someone is offended & also 'feel' with them.
So as a conclusion, it's understandable if someone is offended by anything what people could or can say.
PS: something is wrong with me today, my english-skills feel extremely weird & bad :/
Normally I don't have that problem :D
You can always get offended, but you can hide it offcourse. An example, a couple months ago, I knew about a friend who was dating a red haired girl (flame incoming prolly :/) but no one else knew, at one evening, some of my other friends were really laughing about a redhaired girl, I can't imagine somebody could not be offended like that? My friend just acted like he didn't care, he even admitted being in love.
Me myself, I'm not easily offended, since I have extremely high self-confidence. Whetter it is to hide a low self-esteem I leave to the psychologists if I ever have to attend one. (narcistic behaviour) But I also have an extremely high feeling of empathie, what makes it easy for me to understand when someone is offended & also 'feel' with them.
So as a conclusion, it's understandable if someone is offended by anything what people could or can say.
the rest i do not understand ;)
It's only hard to get offended by people you like, friends, family etc.
Not some random lowlife who calls you 'fat' for example.