Friendzone'd

I just got friendzoned kinda hard, and it sucks relatively bad a the very moment. It was to be expected tho, but it still sucks.

image: friend_zone2

So, crossfire, cheer me up or i'll rage snoop-style and ban you all!
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snoop.
aha
Sucks balls.

You want to be around her and the other way around too but it DOES NOT COMPLY.

Best thing to happen would be for another amazing girl to show up and make you change your mind about it all but that never happens when you want it and usually occurs only when you're out with your girlfriend.

Watch some sitcoms, drink beer, make it worse than it is so you can laugh about it in some sort of twisted way.

Ok, this is a serious reply, wanted to say something like 'hahaha you suck' actually.
We'll come out stronger in the end!
Parent
I'm kinda glad it's over, I've been interested for a while but knew all along I don't stand a chance, so today I man'd up and talked to her to get it out of my mind, got the response I knew I'd get, so now I can move on and find someone else. Which is awesome.

But it still sucks, and so do I. :D
Parent
Yeah, feelings are mixed :P It's better than not knowing for sure if she's into it though I guess.

I'm almost turning this conversation into self-therapy x|
Parent
Yeh, but i already knew this, it's why i had the conversation in the first place :P

Dunno why i made this journal though, just attentionwhoring i guess
Parent
Sometimes getting it out into every channel possible helps :P

For more emotalk you can find me at irc.
Parent
Thx, but i've got it covered.
I should do this more often, music is ten times awesomer when i'm in this mood!
Parent
btw did you girl came up once again? or did she kept the silence?
Parent
We're gonna have a drink saturday, I'm going in with no intentions ^_^
Parent
thought we were going to play 2on2s on saturday! :(
Parent
did the same, we ended up kissing eachothers for like 2hours until i left @ 3am

why can the girls i met not be simple like that, like you have to do things like waiting ages in order to build up a decent relationship 8<
Parent
too bad mate :(
code a woman on java, dont forget to implemented shutup() tho :<
Java? YOU MUST REALLY HATE ME!
Parent
at least its not your ex girlfriend :P

i got dumped by my ex twice after we lived on our own for 9 month we thought we give it another try, it took her exactly 26 hours to notice that she does not love me.

2 days after she told me she still loves me, i trusted her, another 73 hours later she broke up with me again, telling me she cant handle the situation.

21 days later, now, she phoned me and told me she still loves me and she want to try it again.

i talked with her explaining that i need some time to figure out how serious she is. after she just canceled our date on thusday she never spoke/phoned me again since then.

i would seriously prefer your situation which is a clear failure instead of a girl playing around with my feelings
Parent
Sorry to hear that :S
Think you gotta set your foot down on that one :/
Parent
Actually kinda in the same position now and not sure what to do :x]
you talk to her yet?
Parent
Well we've been friends for a while but never really tried to hit on her in a serious way.
Parent
you figure you have any decent chance?
Parent
Well it's quite strange how she acts sometimes. Sometimes it looks like she's trying to hit on me but then the next day she's doing the opposite.

Quite strange, that's why I've no clue if I should go for it or not.
Parent
what do you have to loose, if you keep it like this someone you fall so badly in love that you will destroy the friendship anyways :P

wait for a moment where she acts like shes trying to hit on you and tell her everything
Parent
The problem is that I work with her. If it goes bad I can't just ignore her.
Parent
oh, ok thats quite shit, well my ex girlfriend and i also had the complete same friends, somewhen you will get used it, the first weeks it will suck big time tho
Parent
Will see how I'll handle it. Might just get her drunk so when it messes up I've got an excuse ;]
Parent
Confessing your love for her while she's drunk might not be the most viable option :P
Parent
What about taking her hostage?
Parent
My ex is currently staying at my sister's house, probably sleeping on the same mattress I was sleeping on 2 days ago :P
Parent
I see..
I went for it even though i knew i didn't have any chance now, cause I just wanted to get it over with. And yes, we are pretty close friends, we have a shitload of friends in common, etc. But I think it's gonna be allright, she seemed pretty mature about it..
Parent
well it does not really suck for her, but for you to have common friends :P
Parent
In some occasions its just better to get rid of it then to keep it in.
Parent
my thoughts exactly!
Parent
haha shes fucking ur best friend

haha
Been there sooo many times, which is why nearly all my friends are girls ha
rape her
=/ Been in a strange situation myself aswell not long ago =o
dont waste your time try your luck on another girl
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