love hurts

told a girl i love her last night, took me like five months to do so, was my first time saying it to someone and meant it, she said she doesn't feel the same way, she just loves me as a really good friend. now i'm le sad and i wanna die :'( kill me!
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deal with it
This topic is now about my lighter, first dropped it out to a bush and had to find it out, went to toilet to clean it and then dropped it to my fucking toilet seat..

fml

Ps. lol love
its not the first time im in love, its the first time saying it to someone.

and well, i think about her all the time for the past five or six months, everything remind me of her, when im with her im more calm and happy, she makes me laugh etc etc.. and now she made me le fucking sad
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take her into ur basement and dont let her go.

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love is great :)
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Quote making love is great :)


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Just play ET because ET will never leave you and you'll forget her :D no need self kill in fight ffs
Feel the pain , remember the pain , Never forget the pain !
So you can never do it to anyone else !


I KNOW RIGHT HIPPY TALK BUT ITS TRUE ! atleast thats what I heard :D
broken heart hurts the most !
that's not true.
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had some opportunities of "using" her after some bottles but couldn't do it since ive wanted it to be something that we both want and won't regret after
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she said that she likes u as a friend, cause she thinks ur ugly as fuck.
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that was a mistake, girls love to get in a relationship after having some sex with you

if you don't take advantage of course they will only think of you as a friend
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You know what they say: time heals all wounds. Except it doesn't. It'll always hurt only that new experiences bury it after a while.

Meet your friends and keep yourself occupied with doing sports or so and you'll be good.
SHE FRIEND ZONED YOU MAN.
LOL YOU NO COMPASS
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good mornin destiny <3
i had sex with a reaLLY GOOD FRIEND so still there is a chance :)

e. im sry to hear but how couldnt u notice since 5month??!
schnee listen to the mix in my journal! GOOD MOOD!
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I did notice but I have no idea why Ive done nothing with it. and sex is not what I want from her, well.. you know ;)
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its all about love tru :) BUT still imo if you like /love a girl u should notice after a short time if she likes/loves u 2! there are 2 possibilities why u didnt notice :
1. u r stupid and blind as fuck
2. u r more than romantic and got not much experience
3. ?

:)
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I'd go with nr.2 ;)

but the thing is, we were never a couple, we are good friends that acts more than just friends, anyone that saw us together thought we are together, we act like a couple, ffs i was in a vacation with her the last weekend, just us.

we went to the sea, to a club.. took a walk by the sea, she wanted to take awalk after we left the club at 5am, just us, by the sea, id say its pretty romantic and not something that normal friends do, i could totally "use" her that night since we were both pretty wasted, drank alot at da club.. she confused me with all this things and now that i finally decided to open up she did this shit and broke my heart
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BUT DID U HAVE SEX WITH HER?

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you amuse me :D
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srsly she wanted to get laid and you didnt deliver it, bro. so sad :(
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hmm thats some girl rofl. maybe she's a lesbian :)
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nice story jewm8 :PP
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slit her throat
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Have that kind of girlfriend. We used to fuck back in the day but not anymore. I never loved her/she never loved me, you are just too green for grown up games, dude :D
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If this is real, then mabye confront her with this...? :/ sounds weird but might be a good idea to ask her about this.
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yes, was a good time
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:DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
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WHATS SO FUNNY?
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good friend= best buddies?
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gratz :D lol
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wasnt wanted tbh :PP
we tried to behave for 4 years :o i blame the alcohol^^
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i love a girl who likes to have sex with her GOOD friends *_*
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lol no its not that i did it on purpose :o it just happened :) although we didnt want ;)

so are u her good friend??!
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I'm your good friend schnee. let's not want to do it, but still do it? :)
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:PPPPPPPPPPPP
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So you raped each other?
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usual answer: i dunno :D
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it takes half the time you loved her until you will get over her.

play et so long
true words :)
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took me twice the time :/
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watch more HIMYM ;D

Ted: It takes the time till you meet the next girl :p
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tbh, many of my friends said I should watch it, but only watched few :D

I am still watching big bang theory and then I will watch It's always sunny in Philadelphia!

But ted is awesome :D
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but barney is legen.. wait for it.. dary.. LEGENDARY! :D
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poor you! i know how that feels :(
but now you have to get over it mate! i was in love for 6 years, and still im OK. you will be too!
listen to the tape in my journal (yeah its germans talkin first) but it is in a good mood!

get well sir

or that song from schnee!
FRIEND ZONED
Enough image: VBuLR in the ocean, brah.
just for the beauty of it...nice!
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as if boys arent we just have no name for you ! =)
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didnt realise they made cartoons about aza
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keep your head up brother. After some slut broke my heart i started to be a total dick they don't deserve anything else. "no women no cry" easy to say but it's damn real
i have to agree with you once again


you speak wisdom!
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Marley definitely meant 'no woman, don't cry'
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You wasted five months its so sad ;x
gl
godddddddd ur gay move the fuck on
bros before hoes.

dude, never fall in love again, that's all ;) works for me 8D no more sadness! just happyness ^^
you have to experience the deepest grounds of sadness to enjoy the highest feelings of happyness :)
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protip: if you are friends with a girl longer then 1 week and nothing has happened move on
Get the fuck over it. Can't have it all.
Tbh i thinks itd rathers awesomes
"Men got 99 problems but a bitch got none"
better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!
I follow a simple rule when I don't want to be friendzoned: Tactically, be a dick.
ouch. and...wat insti said
BAD TROLL 2/10
Move on brah, everything you can do about it is just "let it be"
i love this song. brandon <3
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Who is Brandon? :D
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seexy hexy brandon boyd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3
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Well... Ignore her, do something with your homies and if you can't simply ignore her be a dick towards her so that you got less and less to do with her. I'm serious here, if you keep hanging around with her you definitely will think "maybe it'll work out soon" and this will kill you from the inside. :)
Du, du...Schwein. :(
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Quotenow i'm le sad and i wanna die :'( kill me! [/quot]
emo more plz. Just move on and find another
What lahq said, plus if you feel like "falling" ever again - just start thinking negatively about chick, it's a hard way and you can simply miss the correct moment, but possible. Infatuation is a self-perpetuating emotion which leads you to what people usually call "love".

And yes, it's called auto therapy in psychology, didn't make it out after a few beers.
Every rose has its thorn..
if u got girl problems i feel bad for you son, i've got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
If you havin'*
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trollool sigur :D
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thank you! :)
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didn't read but that's why you drink and get hoes
You were probably friend zoned like 5 months back haha.
I broke up with my girlfriend after 1.5 years. its not that i didnt love her anymore but people can change and she proofed me that :)
there is a girl, im in love with, but as she lives 300km away from me, cuz of my study, i quited nearly all contact with her, because i dont want her to say "i dont wanna lose you as a friend"
so as soon as my study is over i gonna marry her!
..but sometimes it's a good hurt :)
BEST JOURNAL EVER
i left my bf after 3 years cause id see him more as a friend than a bf now :)

btw there are so many nice peepz outside and its summer so not thard to find one since u r a nice boy :)
sounds like a bad sex story :p lol
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was this before or after having sex with
Quotea reaLLY GOOD FRIEND


?!?!??!
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before :)


WHY???????????!?!?!?!?!?!?!
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just wondering wether you're the good girl you appear or a image: Bitch-Inside
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im the good girl always :D
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u were friendzoned bro.




now rape her.
fap hard go pro
Shit sucks!
bind RightHand "kill;forcetapout"
play ET and forget this bitch.
I think the thing was that you go and say those kind of things. If you like her for 5 months and haven't even date her or had a relationship with her then saying "I love you" is a very wrong start.

What I think is that you are not really in love with her. Just stupidly attracted to her. Next time you like a girl do not start with words "I love you". Maybe works on some blonds, but if it is a smarter girl she will do just that.


(Sorry. I do not even know the half of the true story, but I assume from what I read)
Just drink with her again, try to bang her and then leave her :)))))
Had the same.

Ignored her untill she was mad.
Nice guys finish last, that's why i'll treat you like trash :$
When I was in poland last year I met a girl that I really liked. We were together every night and had a great time. I actually think that she liked me too, maybe not as much as I liked her but still... But I was a coward and never told her that I liked her. We didn't have much contact since then.

Now I found out she has a boyfriend and I'm going to poland soon and stay a week at her place. Don't know if I still got feelings for her. Even if she wanted to be with me, it would be really hard to have a relationship since I live in Denmark.

Just give it some time and you'll get over it. Talk with family/friends about it, I'm sure they will help you. Get well mate :)
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Mariusz Pudzianowski is her new bf
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would be cool
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not if he beats the fuck outta you :)
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getting friendzoned hard aswell right now ;)

i feel you bro ^^
Love can hurt but how can it hurt if she never loved you ?

Accept she rejected you move on to the next. It's nothing to even be sad about to be quite honest. If your sad about this wait until you have a long term relationship and then they leave you.

Man up a bit !!!!
buhu. I've seen ur pics destiny, so I understand the chick :) ur only shot is to take advantage of her while she's drunk and start from there. Clearly there's no point when she's sober.

anyways here's a pro tip for all of u blindly in love pussies: the key on how not to get hurt is simple. If u see that ure in love, in or out of relationship ALWAYS CONTROL urself. Never give everything to the girl and bomb her with ur feelings. Start slowly and first make sure that she's in love with u more than u're in love with her. Then u can let go the breaks and in 90 percent cases she's the one that's eventually gonna suffer. The point is if u give everything to the chick before u know her feelings towards u for sure, she just gets bored by u and leaves. And we all know how awesome is when a chick loves u more than u love her, she'll do ANYTHING ;)
"I love you" is a sentence you say to a girl after weeks and months but not before you even have kissed her once.

she wanted you to get her at the lake I guess and hear such words later if you both realized that you belong together and you fit for a relationship

maybe confront her with the day at the lake :p gl
what took you so long in the first place to tell her?
Fear kills everything.

FEAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
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my girlfriend is fucking with her exboyfriend so np :D
You can still get laid with her. It's not true love I know, but still better then nothing right. Just act smootly and not like an sweaty nervous newbie.

And it just means she is not the One for you. Just try to get over it by not contacting her everyday and ignoring her for like a week. Would be best.

Oh and also don't wait for 5 months next time. If you wait too long girls get the feeling you dont like them and they go huntin for someone else ;)

p.s When you enter the friend zone, its almost impossible to get back out of it :PPP
mate my friend went through this same thing

he was madly in love with this girl who clearly said that she only wants to be friends nothing more...alot of time later she ended up saying that she likes him and they technically didn't have sex but got to 2nd base.

Stay her friend and she will eventually come around, or you will gradually forget about her :)
fucking +1
It's the nose man, the nose.

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True story.
lol the pic ;D
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Boys can't be friends with girls... always ends up in one getting in love with the other. And you lost this time :P! :( sucks!

But tbh.... if you still want a chance with her.. you have to tell her that you don't want to be friends. Because you don't right? After a while something could happen when you guys meet. You can act like yourself and she knows what you want from her.

Best thing about this: you will not get confronted with her every week anymore... so the pain will go away faster :). Plus.. you act confident and know what you want. Girls like that. Take matters into your own hands I say. GL
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