Good morning cf (I'm sad)

by txcxL • 23 Jul 2008, 08:44 • Journals
huhu cf... i was just in mood to write a good morning journal... ahh two days ago i split up with my girlfriend... she did it per sms and i rly didnt understand why... i'm a sad panda now...

FLAME ON

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The first sms:
german: "es funktioniert so nicht. ich kann das nicht mehr weiter aufschieben. wir können nicht zusammen sein. ich habe es eben nicht fertig gebracht dir das ins gesicht zu sagen , weil ich dich nicht als kumpel verlieren möchte. also es ist vorbei"

english: "it doesn't workt like this. i can't defer it anymore. we can't be together. i couldn't say it face to face because i dont wanna loose ya as a good friend. so it's over!"

Then i asked her why and that it is really abrupt.

The second sms:
german: "Weil die gefühle einfach nicht stimmen :/ ich fühl mich scheiße. sicher hasst du mich -.- oh man.. ich weiß nicht ich glaub als freunde haben wir mehr zukunft.. musst es nicht verstehn. ich fühl mich mies :-( sry -.-"

english: "Because the feelings arent right :/ i feel shit. surely u hate me -.- oh man.. i dont know, i think as friends we have more future.. you dont have to understand it. i feel bad :-( sry -.-"
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OfficerCohen 23 Jul 2008, 09:46
lol by sm :DDDDDDDDD
well say thanks she didnt do it by private msg at crossfire :~>

girls are like washing mechine, if its broken you doing by hand :~>DDD
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 09:51
i understand.. I had the same after 8months with her...
Still in love after 1year and an half ;'(
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OfficerCohen 23 Jul 2008, 09:53
go get her you nubcake ;s
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 09:59
no i won't ;'( (she has a boyfriend nowadays btw, for 1year and an half too :XD)
Even if i'm still in love, i don't want to go out with her again, she makes me sick -_-"
I saw her yesterday @ a festival... She feared me because i was drunk -_-" she thought nearly i would rape her ;'(
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OfficerCohen 23 Jul 2008, 10:00
decide what you feel about her -_-'
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:03
I don't have to decide, we can't choose our feelings :]
But ppl can be in love and in the same time, ppl can not want to go out with.
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OfficerCohen 23 Jul 2008, 10:04
your feelings are mixed up
you want her or not? yes/no
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:04
no
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OfficerCohen 23 Jul 2008, 10:05
good
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zafoga 23 Jul 2008, 10:27
shh iam her new boyfriend :x
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:51
it aint funny? :< (spam ftw)
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zafoga 23 Jul 2008, 10:54
QuoteMade Lithium & Vendetta whine irl @ frenchlan :P

Gold Have a really nice Girlfriend :)

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Gold Alcoholic

Gold Lan Only

Gold Worst singer ever

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Gold Chef louveteau - Kaa '07 - '08

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Gold Intronisé Vervietoise '08


:DD:D:::DDDd
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:56
yep i have a girlfriend atm, what's your point ?
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zafoga 23 Jul 2008, 10:57
oh i thought you didnt update your achivements -> old gf :<
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:58
np ;) I wasn't on cf when i was with her ^^ it's old, as i said, 1 year and an half
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loctarar 23 Jul 2008, 10:04
Look for someone else. Helps a lot.
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:06
true ^^ that's what i'm doing ^^
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:08
i hope you agree with my msn pic ^^^^^
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:14
of my ex-girlfriend ?
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:15
nvm
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:17
cfr. pm =)
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:23
omg vintage effect on pics ofyou and ur gf + french language + loads of "<3" :XD:XD:XD:XD FAIL :d. anyway, shame :). and btw trust me, long term relationships at this age... epic fail :)
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:23
it's not me, it's her new boyfriend ;)
I'm not to blame :DDD
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:28
rofl thought so, your msn pic looks kinda different :DDD. Anyway greek dicks >>>> french-belgian dicks so she'll come back trust me =dd
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:30
She didn't even see it mate ;'(
edit : but you're right anyway :DDD
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:33
wtf man, your greek man wtf, 8 months and she didnt even see your dick wtf wtf wtf :XXX:X:X:X::X:XX. sorry man, but you embarass me :(:(
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:36
She was afraid to do it -_-" but it's not a problem nowadays, i solved it right after with other girls :D
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:38
maaaaaaaaaan, you were getting me worried =DDD. Good to hear :D. Btw she may have been afraid of your Greece penis =d
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:42
I guess that's the point :D
Greece > *
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:19
omg, i didn't read right :P
Yes, i agree :XD
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im a tree 23 Jul 2008, 10:38
she thought nearly i would rape her ;'(





best post ending on crossfire in 2008
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:40
:D don't blame me, that's what she think.
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wsk 23 Jul 2008, 10:13
Quote
i understand.. I had the same after 8months with her...
Still in love after 1year and an half ;'(


sounds like you 2 are talking about the same girl =P
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:15
a bit but mine is belgian, not german :D
But it really looks the same, agree...
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dEVJE 23 Jul 2008, 09:55
mornin
she did it per sms? it's glamour nowadays I see
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huPoo 23 Jul 2008, 09:59
If someone leaves you by sms, you probably didn't go out for too long time. Or if you did, she's pretty idiot or your relationship never had any spark in it. Or maybe you treated her like shit and she decided to give you quick message to drop it all fast.

Don't know, don't care.
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:14
no she said it wasn't my fault... she isn't clear about her feelings... ach i dunno rlly... all is shit...
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M T M 23 Jul 2008, 10:17
Not to be rude or anything like that.. but man. Leaving by an sms is one of the lamest thing I've ever heard of.

If the problem wasn't you I guess she could've seen you and told face to face what's the thing. :--d
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:19
she said i am very important for her and she couldn't say it to me face to face because she dont wanna lose me as a friend... and then she said "i feel bad" -> nearly i answered "fuck u i am the one and only who has a reason to feel bad!!!"
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M T M 23 Jul 2008, 10:35
If you're important to her why didn't see want to meet you face to face? :-D
If I were your girlfriend I would had told it straight in fear loosing you even as a friend.

And if you really are/were that important, why did she even leave you?

Your ex-girl friend obviously doens't make any sense and you keep believing that bullshit she keeps telling? Well, your problem.
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:39
i dont believe?! lol... i didn't know what to believe in her words rlly... i didn't say i believe what she said did i? she wrote me a SVZ-msg ... like a cf pm xD that she maybe regrets her 2-years-relationship although i am the second or third friend (even more) after him... naja
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Panda 23 Jul 2008, 10:13
Drink some whiskey and stop moaning
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shepherd 23 Jul 2008, 10:13
I left one of my gf's by sms, she still hates me after 4 years :(
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wsk 23 Jul 2008, 10:14
comic > sms

=>
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Nonix 23 Jul 2008, 10:15
She walked in and said she didn't wanna know
Anymore
Before i could ask why she was gone out the door
I didn't know, what i did wrong
But now i just can't move on

Since she left me
She told me
Don't worry
You'll be OK you don't need me
Believe me you'll be fine
Then i knew what she meant
And it's not what she said
Now i can't believe that she's gone

I tried calling her up on her phone
No one's there,
I've left messages after the tone...
Really?
Yeah man loads

I didn't know, what i did wrong
But now i just can't move on
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:17
sounds good
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Paintrain 23 Jul 2008, 10:16
Poor you, hang in there. You're gonna get a new one, don't cry too long over this one. And keep in mind that basically all girls are whore one way or another, so don't let them get to you too much.
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ag0n 23 Jul 2008, 10:18
Im also sad. Its uber hot at portugal but its rainig and there is storms around :<
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vikeh 23 Jul 2008, 10:47
not as much as it is in here!
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slifer 23 Jul 2008, 10:20
http://www.crossfire.nu/?x=journal&mode=item&id=62970

Welcome to the club :<
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:28
sie hat geschrieben "es funktioniert so nicht. ich kann das nicht mehr weiter aufschieben. wir können nicht zusammen sein. ich habe es eben nicht fertig gebracht dir das ins gesicht zu sagen , weil ich dich nicht als kumpel verlieren möchte. also es ist vorbei"

englisch: "it doesn't workt like this. i can't defer it anymore. we can't be together. i couldn't say it face to face because i dont wanna loose ya as a good friend. so it's over!"
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:29
you won't be friend anymore. The relationship will only be in one way :<
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loctarar 23 Jul 2008, 10:33
Ofc you can be friends. Don't be ridiculous :).
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 10:35
after a long time perhaeps, but honestly, that depends on both ppl.
It works with some ppl, with some it fails...
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Fist 23 Jul 2008, 11:30
It failed in my case. When i broke up with my gf, the first thing she said was, but we are still friends right? So i respond with ofcourse. Then she hardly looked at me and talked with me. And its over for like a half year now..
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 11:31
same for me. She thinks i still want to go out with her, so she's always shy..
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Fist 23 Jul 2008, 11:34
Do you give her any reasons to make her think that?
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Graecos 23 Jul 2008, 11:35
ofc not =) I even told her she wasn't right but she doesn't trust me neither believe me.
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slifer 23 Jul 2008, 10:46
Doesnt matter how she say it, sms sucks always.
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PaRzi 23 Jul 2008, 10:20
omg déjà-vu
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zafoga 23 Jul 2008, 10:41
how old is she 14 ?
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:42
she is 18.. in january she will be 19...
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h1tmAn 23 Jul 2008, 12:06
be*
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 12:46
oh yes.... :x edited
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:42
she gave you the classic "I only wanna see you as a friend" which means "gtfo of my life". Just wait and see, in a few weeks you wont be seeing her anymore
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 10:43
she is on my school ... also in my form :x and we have the same circle of friends in our hometown... so i have more friends then her (LOL) but some really good friends are in our both circle of friends
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HellHammer 23 Jul 2008, 10:51
if she cant get rid of you, then theres a chance that you will start a relationship with her again, and then i hope you will dump her, unless you really like her (and she likes you also :XD).
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m!das 23 Jul 2008, 13:15
yep its the classic one!!
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mend 23 Jul 2008, 10:42
englisch: "it doesn't workt like this. i can't defer it anymore. we can't be together. i couldn't say it face to face because i dont wanna loose ya as a good friend. so it's over!"

sounds like idiot logics, forget about her. If she's to stupid to think that dumping you that way is going to save a friendship she rllly....
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slifer 23 Jul 2008, 10:46
I'm with you ;<
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h8m3 23 Jul 2008, 10:51
ich feel shit
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overboost 23 Jul 2008, 10:52
Ending up as friends doesn't work out, if you can't say something like this in person.
Friendship is underrated, what she meant is that she doesn't want much contact.
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foonr 23 Jul 2008, 10:58
ive had the old friend line before, we didnt talk for 2 months, she was like why arent we still friends, 4 weeks later we were dating <o/
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overboost 23 Jul 2008, 11:07
I could never go back to an old lover.
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foonr 23 Jul 2008, 11:08
i think thats probably true in 99% of cases
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slifer 23 Jul 2008, 11:10
I could and still want... :<
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overboost 23 Jul 2008, 11:25
That's not nice. :(
By the way, nice bass guitar, if that's you at least.
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slifer 23 Jul 2008, 11:28
:( But if you still "like" the person..
And yes thats me, the real Mr. slifer ,thats an Fender Squire P-bass ;)
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Dylon 23 Jul 2008, 10:58
dont worry dude, im still in big depresion after Hilary Duff dident response to my sms, whit i wrote i love her and she can wash my socks everyday
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bachOr 23 Jul 2008, 11:01
oh c'mon she is just another girl who use too many "i cant","it doesn't","oh i dunno but i think its bad" etc.
u should be with better girl. GL
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ziqvpix 23 Jul 2008, 11:15
haha!

to see this post make s me so happy!
i just funny laugh.
laugh hardy .
it s sad for u but me? i m very very happy

man, be happy, now u hv enough time to get skilled at ET.


hahahahahahahahahaha xD




u know, i m luaghing like cartman in southpark laugh all the time



>.< rofllllllllllllllllll
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ziqvpix 23 Jul 2008, 11:16
oh, u r skilled.

man get a real life omg
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txcxL 23 Jul 2008, 12:49
judo -> nrw kader, deutschland kader
trompete -> landesjugendorchester nrw
gymnasium 12.klasse
meine 4. freundin (vorher bastard -> "einmal ficken, weiterschicken")
seit 6 monaten nicht mehr gezockt

ist dir das reallife genug?

erst denken, dann reden
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ming 23 Jul 2008, 12:04
sad indeed
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Cachucha 23 Jul 2008, 12:26
I broke with my ex by msn, and yes we didnt have any spark so who cares.
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Slasheh 23 Jul 2008, 12:39
tell her to shove her friendship up her arse.

The least she could ahve done if she wanted to stay on friendly terms, is to discuss it in person face to face.

over sms its emotionless and cold.

cut her out your life mate, blatantly ignore her as shes a bitch.
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ziqvpix 23 Jul 2008, 13:04
<3 cartman
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