how to ignore a friend

I have an old friend from school (used to play football with him) who is calling me once a month to come party or do something etc. Last times i went to his flat to play some chess (yes we like to play it). But I dont really want to spend more time with him. He is nice no problem with him. I know it sounds a little bit gay but I believe he is straight (atleast he is talking about his girls all the time). Now I gave my msn accunt also, so he can contact me here aswell, but i am too lazy too chat with him. And to be honest it would be rude to ignore him on msn, right? Would you do that against a friend?

The reason why i posted this because you guys/girls always so creative here so lets see what come out of this :D
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once i ate a cookie
so ure saying ure gay?
no, in that case id enjoy this right?
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no you'd hate him for liking girls thats why u dont want to be in touch with him anymore !
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QuoteBut I dont really want to spend more time with him. He is nice no problem with him. I know it sounds a little bit gay but I believe he is straight


i dont see ure problem why you dont wanna see him
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Ye same here.
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You can always say Ive got stomach issues :(
Say you're moving to another country to study and there is no internet there
:D
what if he calls me on phone? he is able to call me from unknown numbers etc
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then you sue him for stalking you?
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he is calling you with unknown numbers? XD
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clled me from his office didnt know that number so obviously I answered.
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QuoteHe is nice no problem with him.


so whats the reason ?
i dont get it :D
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I ignore, they cant know whether its afk or ignore.

not very creative, but effective
ignored my father, atleast he is not calling me on phone
Parent
You can block him from time to time or change your status to "offline"
AND NOW HES ONLINE @ CROSSFIRE !
Why don't you want to spend time with him?
Just tell him straight <- haHA
Also, you any good at chess? :P
not bad but i used to be better
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bros before hos
Can we be friends and be press-up partners ?
if you act normal..
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just give him link for this journal
i was gonna do that if he gave me his msn :(
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kill him
say him youre gay and if you dont stop he gonna get a dick in his face
"Busy, stop talking to me."

Gee, that was hard, wasn't it?
Its alright for u, u dont have to leave ur house to see their face of dissapointment !
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But those are the best faces after despair!
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I knew by ur voice that u were/are an evil human being !
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fake your death
tell him you were gay and in love with him
tell him ur gay and u want buttsex
if you keep repeating that you have no time for him i guess he wil be smart enough to understand that you dont wanna hang out

also funny that you call him 'friend' btw
"FUCK U IM PALYING ET AGAINST FINNISH NERDS LET ME FOCUS OMGMOFDFDFD STOP CALLIN ME"

*BEEP BEEP BEEP*
just tell him that he is a nice guy and stuff but at the moment you are not feeling comfortable with him cos you dont have time and stressed with work or w/e the reason is, tell him that you still respect him and the problem is not him but yourself, excuse yourself and tell him not to phone anymore
yea i guess you know all about it
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"Sorry mate but I already have a boyfriend"
why did you give him your msn if you only want to talk to him or spend time with him once a month :D?
because when he asked i thought its better to give than force him calling me on phone :-/
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he's somehow your stalker then?
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calling someone once per month can hardly be called stalking :XD
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he said that hes calling him with extra unknown number and wants to visit him n stuff :D
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the only way is ignoring him or just tell your mother has a cancer and you have to take care of her so you cant talk with him anymore
QuoteI know it sounds a little bit gay but I believe he is straight

so, because he is straight u dont want to spent some time with him? u r ignorant, sir :DD
lol stop acting like a cop you understand what i wanted to write there -_-
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well, just ignore him, there is nothing u can say besides "sry, i am secret agent and have some stuff to do..."
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give me his msn
Just block him. It'll look like you're offline.
You can just appear offline.
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I'd imagine he has more than one person on his contact list, though!
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Appear offline is a must for the antisocial gamer. Thusly people from realife do not bother you while you are in game.
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what are u bullshiting about
it's for making people think you are going out @ friday/saturday night
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backstab him

ask some advice to ross? :D
just press the [x], press it again if needed. eventually he stops spamming you
Call a hotline girl and ask for advice, better than journals here.

Seriously, discussing such matters on crossfire, how sad is that.
actually it's more interesting than a lot of the non constructive bullshit that appears on here most of the time..
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Yeah but I'm not talking about our perspective here. What I meant with the previous comment of mine was that it's pretty sad to write about your problems on crossfire and count on people here to help you solve your problems :p.
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it's not sad
it's a community based on everyone's life and problems and solutions. it started as an gaming community which talks about gaming, but it's now mostly one big family of haters and lovers who helps each other
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Where did I ask for help ?
QuoteThe reason why i posted this because you guys/girls always so creative here so lets see what come out of this :D

Wanted to see what people think about it nothing more. I am not an idiot with 76IQ. Can solve this little 'problem' easily. But MAYBE someone can tell something really usefull..
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just say you're busy ..
Believe me the older you get the more valuable friends become. He sounds like a decent guy, just have some patience for him from time to time.
Just say you have to prac with your clan for serious LAN fights!
"I know it sounds a little bit gay but I believe he is straight "

it means that you are gay or he is hiding to be gay? because you seem a little bit disappointed because of this
Just say you have to prac with your clan for serious LAN fights!
just dont write back ...only from time to time...thats how im doing it

since 10000 people want to chat with me every day
say you are gay = problem solved ;)
i have a friend like this :D, and i am not answering at the phone or sms.i think she got it in the end :D

(meanie image: pink%20evil , i know)
I don't know but chess is awesome, i love intellectual battles
stab him in the neck
looks like you have a friend.
just be honest, and say it
get him to sign upto crossfire and read what you wrote about him above, that should do the trick.
well,I ignore friends often and they still want me to go out with them. so it looks like they always forgive me I ignore their invites. np4me.
+1 :DDDD
they know i'll not go out with them yet they ask every time :DD
and i had this friend, she wanted to be more than a friend and i wouldnt hit her so i started playing an asshole and stuff just to make her stop. it didnt work so i just ignored her or was like all silent when we met irl and used only yes/no n stuff in conversations. after a few months she finally gave up...
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haha,same experience :D
have one girl that would like to be "more than just my friend" too, playing asshole didnt help on her (hell,she claims its sexy or smth :D) so I gave up,I am "ok" to her (cant be an asshole for long time :<), but avoiding her irl as much as possible :)
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Punch him in the face.
Tell him you're busy.
QuoteBut I dont really want to spend more time with him.



QuoteI gave my msn accunt also, so he can contact me here aswell,



"hey i am allergic to peanuts"

"y0 dawgs i ate 5kg peanuts, how do i ignore my symptoms?"

guess you see what i did thar..
use your brain to find the solution
after 2x reading your text i still don't understand why you want to quit your friendship?

e: If i had the same problem like you just have, i wouldn't lie and say "im too busy" or such things. Say the truth (if you realy donot want him as your friend anymore).
so the problem is you kinda like him but you dont wanna spend time with him atm cos ur a bit tired of him? :>
haha, well yes this is indeed a wee bit gay :D

i have a friend who never goes out etc because he's very busy with his study and he's just not that sort of guy and normally i meet all my other friends when i'm going out but this guy always wants me to come over to his place to have dinner together and talk about boring stuff and then i'd have to ask about his live etc which really i dont really care about so i started to make excuses for not being able to come over for dinner and he's stopped asking me. i figure he'll be waiting for me to ask this time. he's a nice fella though so i'll probably still ask him if we'll go for a drink or smth just cba to go over to his anymore -_-
Inviting 1 male friend over for dinner to talk sounds gay.
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jeh
"and talk about boring stuff and then i'd have to ask about his live etc which really i dont really care about so i started to make excuses for not being able to come over"
SAME :D
Parent
you dont got other friends to ask, instead of crossfire...
they are snitches !
Parent
just tell him that you are very busy and don't have time to hang out, say that it annoys you when you are working and he calls you.
tell him, sorry need to study/eat! works always
just say him:

wtf! i have to do the dishes!
wtf! i have to clean my room
wtf! my dads arm is broken
wtf! need to ornanate
wtf! i play chess with some1 else
wtf! i go drink schnaps and have a nice time
pretend ur gay, i'm sure he'll leave u alone : ))))))))
sorry, I don't get it. Why do you spend time with him at all if you ... do not feel like? oO
" im busy doing yar mom' mate brb "
That's why I hate you Daniel :)
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